The blues and the uppers

Well Reggie and I are getting married in less than two weeks. I'm very excited but bumbed at the same time. I am one of those people who wants everyone to be happy and its hard when you can't please everyone. My mom is throwing Reggie and I something up at her place; however, about 20 people down here won't be able to make it up there and I knew that from the start of things. Reggie and I had planned on doing something down here but alas one bad thing after another seems to be happening and now we don't have the money to feed 20 people. Then i thought we could do a dinner and have people pay their way and go someplace simple and cheapish like golden corral. And yes I know its like only 10 dollars a person but with the way things are right now, I dont' think Reggie and I could even afford that. It just really stinks that we can't have something going on down here for his side of the family. We'll probably have dinner at his parents house for his two best friends my two best friends and my mom after the wedding but it still stinks. :(

On the upside, a lot of friends that I haven't seen since highschool will be there and my best friend is flying in from Utah to spend the weekend and the first part of the week with us. I wish she could have stayed out her longer than 5 days but timing just really sucks. But atleast she'll be here that is all that matters.

Reggie still hasn't found a job. He had an interview that was promising but they never called him back and he hasn't heard anything from anywhere else that he's applied. It really is upsetting but I know somewhere in my heart that something will come up soon enough. I also haven't heard anything from anywhere and it seems like the bills keep stacking up. I really hope that Reggie and I will make it through. Its putting a lot of strain on us.

Thats about it for the news. I'll probably be Mrs. Kincaid next time I sit down to blog. I'm bad abou that. Laters

In game related news, we managed to clear a Raid. That was pretty impressive for us this week. my toon on the game is so well geared it sucks that we probably won't be raiding again for a while :(

HE ATE MY MUFFINS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know its really sad when the 2 and 3 year old that I watched have more manners than a 25 year old man. HE ATE MY MUFFINS WITHOUT ASKING!!!!!!! I made six muffins for breakfast this morning i got to eat 2 of the six. I though hey I'll wait and eat them on my way to ATL to visit my mother. but NO!!!!!!! Reggie's friend came over today and ATE THEM!!!!! He doesn't even ask reggie and I anymore he just takes. OMG!!! he doesn't even ask before coming over he just shows up and expects us to be here with nothing better to do than do what he wants. OMG! GAH!!!!!!!!!!! atleast the 2 year old I babysat asked before he took something. THATS SAD. I mean I konw its just muffins but its other stuff too. But right now this is what I"m aggitated about. so therefore I must blogg.!!!!!!!

*PS* Before I get mauled about sharing. I would have gladly allowed him like 2 of them if he had asked. I want my strawberry cheesecake muffins. That was my only batch because I can't find the mix anymore :(

Tomorrow is my last day at this job. I'm bumbed out. I really enjoyed the job ; however, this has definitely shown me that I want to work with children. I am really going to miss the boys. I'll still baby sit everyonce in a while but it won't be the same. :( *sigh* i'm going to look for stuff for my open house at my mothers :)

Stuffage updates!

I found out on Friday that the boys will be going back to day care on the 23rd. I'm really rather depressed about it because I was so happy and enjoying this job. I'm going to keep looking for something similar. Alot of day cares around in the area have raised their rates due to the economy and hard times. Which to me seems wrong. The economy is bad so you're going to raise the rates and make the parents pay more? That doesn't seem right to me. But eh. Maybe someone will be willing to have an in house nanny for cheap. 180 a week for 2 kids is cheap right? Reggie's best friend said he knew a couple who were looking in Milledgeville so hopefully they haven't found someone and I'll get a call from them.

Reggie and I went up to visit my mother this weekend. It was a very nice weekend. My aunt and I went looking around for a dress for me to wear to the court house and the open houses. I found a few that I really liked but no purchase yet. I'm gonna check macy's before I decide. We also got the paper to start with the announcements and the invitations. Tiffany, you'll be getting one because mom has your address. I was hoping that you'd be able to make it out with the kids but I understand if you can't. Natalie, If you'd like an announcement let me know your address in an email. They should be really cute. We spent about 2 hours taking pictures out side. Some of them were modled from Natalie's and Jay's. (We're still trying to figure a way to do the silloette.) I'm thinking I may have to do some photoshop magik :) I'm not allowed to post any of them on the blog till we decide on the definate choice...or after the wedding. I'm not sure but Reggie threatened my mint chocolate ice cream pints :-O

We're just going to the justice of the peace then we're going to do a dinner here in Macon and then have a big who-haw in Powder Springs at my mothers place for the friends i have up in ATL area. It should be really nice.

Well i'm gonna go play world of warcraft for about 30 minutes before bed while my clothes dry.

quick update

Well Reggie has been out of work for a week now. Still no word on anything yet. But its not that bad he's got about 3 months worth of severance and they are paying it out like his usual pay schedule :) MY job is still wonderful. I'm enjoying the time with the boys. They are alot of fun. Reggie and I are getting married in less than two months and I'm so excited. I haven't had much time for games lately which is okay. I'm keeping busy other ways :). I'll do a more thorough update later we're actually spending some time tonight together which is nice. laters.

what the hey!

I saw this in a friends blog and thought that I would do it...to kill some time.

I tag anyone else who wants to share...Just paste this list into your blog and bold the ones that you HAVE done, and unbold any I have done that you have NOT... (I changed the font size also on the ones I bolded.)

I have done 46 out of 100...

I have done everything that is in big, bold letters .

1. Started your own blog
2. Slept under the stars
3. Played in a band
4. Visited Hawaii
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Been to Disneyland
8. Climbed a mountain
9. Held a praying mantis
10. Sang a solo
11. Bungie Jumped
12. Visited Paris
    
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown your own vegetables
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
20. Slept on an overnight train
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Hitch-hiked
23. Taken a sick day when you're not ill
24. Built a snow fort
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
    
27. Run a marathon
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
31. Hit a home run
32. Been on a cruise
33. Seen Niagara falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Seen an Amish Community
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing
40. Seen Michelangelo's David
41. Sung karaoke
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had your portrait painted (sketched but i think it counts :)
    
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eifflel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
62. Gone whale watching
63. Got flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving
66. Gone to a Nazi concentration camp
    
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial
71. eaten caviar
    
72. Pieced a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a bone
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book
81. Visited the Vatican
82. Bought a brand new car
83. Walked in Jerusalem
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire bible
86. Visited the white house
    
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
88. Had chicken pox
89. Saved someone's life
90. Sat on a jury
91. met some one famous
    
92. Flown in an airplane
93. Joined a book club
    
94. Lost a loved one
95. Had a baby
96. Seen the Alamo in person
97. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
98. Been involved in a law suit
99. Owned a cell phone
100. Been stung by a bee

Reggie's New Camera

Me being annoyed at reggie for taking the picture. I know I've lost about 20 lbs but when I see the pictures of me now I don't see a difference. I'll fish out an old picture for ya'll to see. Also on Myspace I'm thinking of keeping a picture folder to see my progress. www. myspace.com/gckitten0323. I'd like to be a size 18 or 16 by the time Reggie and I decide to have kids or December of this year...which ever comes first. LOL

Our New house. I love it. :) oh and our focus

My very sexy man :)

again here he is :)

The dog that belongs to the family that I work for. Lizzy is soooo cute :) I wish i could bring her home :)

Me and my baby Acheron. Ash for short.

Ash giving me kisses

A creative endeavor with ash...i missed his face >., but it still looks wicked.

Our baby Mace :)

he's so cute

Reggie's baby Boots :) my tuxedo kitty

Our christmas lights :) pretty good for packing tape holding them up :)

believe it or not this is also our christmas lights :)

again our christmas lights.